My farewell to Outspark....

[DARUNA]

Hello peeps,D here,A.K.A. Andrea,i have some bad news.

A few months ago i was diagnosed with cancer,i have 2 more months in this world.I just wanted to say i have really enjoyed Fiesta and Outspark this past year and would like to thank you all for the memories.I will always cherish my time with you all,but this is my official goodbye.I would like you all to know i will be roaming around the world for my last 2 months,i will check in on the forums everynow and then. Thank you,and goodbye.

With you all forever,
Samantha Andrea Smith
A.K.A. D



My best memories are here-leader of SG,GS,BS,and GM.

Goodluck to you all <3

[Sockrawteez]

=/ im sorry to hear, i have many relitives (includeing parents- with cancer, trust me on one thing tho, 2 months was given to aunt heather..5 years ago, best luck and best of wish to you~

[DARUNA]

thank you,but the kimo had no effect.

[lonelyness4955]

Oh dear...Im sorry to hear that,anywho i hope u have a great time for ur next 2months of trip >_< i will mish u daruuu D:

[DARUNA]

Thank you very much,i plan on it with my lover by my side <3

[zues8844]

Damn cancer...........my grandpa died of that a year ago >.>

I guess there's really not much to say. We all die, the only difference is how. On one side, I envy you, because you will cross over and find out the great mystery behind death. We will all follow you there, in given time. Perhaps you are moving into the next plane of existence. I wish you good luck. Perhaps we might meet again.

[keiiii]

I wish you the best. :3

[overswarm]

Best of luck in the last months of your life. Make them worth the while. Go bungie jumping, sky diving, scuba diving, punching random bikers in the face, get a 120 mile an hour speeding ticket.

Think of it this way, for the next 2 months, the world is your playground for you to do what you want.

[lonelyness4955]

Damn Daruna Y_Y ....seeing ur picture :P ur too young to go DD: <<<< dont leave lmao
Sigh..why all the pretty young thang have to bye bye ="( .. D:

[lokoas2]

nuuuuuuuuuu please not you,
i have to tell i been always trying to pm u but never found u,
just wanted to say how pretty u are...

[redjumpsuitapparatus]

.............. awwww its just sad... i dont know u but it makes my heart broken </3 :(

[MewMewLina]

Daruna91... Didn't you join Moontree at one point? Your character was a boy? And you were in a relationship or something? If not, sorry.

Anyways, I hope you spend your last months good. Good luck.

[Chewy]

Damn...I'm so sorry to hear that =( I don't know you either but my thoughts are with you

[Hakai_Miko]

I don't know you.
still it makes my heart break apart to know you wont be around anymore...
make this last two months worth it, I wish you the best.
...and I'm glad you found the love and have that special one to step next to you this coming months. some people live a whole lifetime and never find love, some people die without being able to show a true smile.
I hope you taste the happiness and enjoy it at max...
how lucky you are to be able to share it with your lover <3

-Mashá.

[Nyoro]

D: ... i'm really wish i could do something at these times... but i can't... i can only hope you enjoy the remaining of your life to the fullest and how you wish it to be.... we only have one life... and that's it

i remember outspark's reasoning for closing quitting threads because most people come back... but... i think this... gone for good... so i dont' think that kind of reasoning applies to this situaiton.

[dylanangel]

I wish I had words of wisdom to help you through what your going through and what your going to face. Things in this life seem so cruel when the young are taken away from us for no reason.

I wish for you to live the rest of the time you have on earth to the fullest and for your family to be at peace with your leaving them. I have had interactions with you on the forums and your a very sweet young lady.

God Bless you and your loved ones

Peace, my heart, let the time for the parting be sweet.
Let it not be a death but completeness.
Let love melt into memory and pain into songs.
Let the flight through the sky end in the folding of the wings over the nest.
Let the last touch of your hands be gentle like the flower of the night.
Stand still, O Beautiful End, for a moment, and say your last words in silence.
I bow to you and hold up my lamp to light you on your way.

[amshinigami]

Hi!
Let me share my experiences with you as a cancer patient. Chemo is really bad, I too felt unsure about my fate after undergoing chemo and radiotherapy sessions. I brave myself, very determined to achieve my goals. In short, be focussed, be a true fighter despite having told that you only have 2 months to live, pray to God for he listens and grants our prayers.

[neonmagician]

Well...really D: No one deserves for their lives to be taken so fast and in such a hurry. Obviously...god knows what he does and he always does things for a reason, always for the well-being of us. As a person that has a close relative that did pass by the fatal moment of being told they have cancer....I can understand it hurts but like I said to that person I say to you....we always have to be strong, no matter what happens and live your day like if it was your last one and at the moment of truth have no regrets. Be strong, live every day like a rebel xD do everything and anything you want to do with your loved ones, but always...never...ever...lose hope because in tough times where everything might seem that its going completely bad for you...hope is the thing that will maintain you strong and always be positive :) <3~ I hope my words will serve of something for you ^^ and again remember these 3 things, have Hope, Love eternally, and Live your days like if they were a small treasure, each and every moment.

[tliofcakhart]

i'm really sry to hear that ><
best wishes to u and gl

[leftis95]

I am so sorry to hear that.From the time i heard that i can't stop thinking about you.
Best wishes and good luck,

[karvaj]

Sorry to hear its sad =( especially for someone who is young.I really hope you enjoy your time.Best wishes.

[kimikawaii]

This is heartbreaking, good luck and best of wishes to you in your last few months, hope that your time on this earth will last longer than predicted, judging by your sig you seem quite young, it seems unfair to have your life taken from you when you've just started. Once again, good luck and best of wishes.

[DARUNA]

Daruna91... Didn't you join Moontree at one point? Your character was a boy? And you were in a relationship or something? If not, sorry.

Anyways, I hope you spend your last months good. Good luck.

Yes,i was in MoonTree at 1 point.Yes my character is a guy,i never told anyone the real reason(well,only 1)I made that character in remembrence of my brother,he died in Iraq a couple years ago,91 was his favorite number.I miss him.

[DARUNA]

Thank you for all your sweet words,they really make me feel better about traveling,i just crossed 2 states and i was about to go to bed,then i thought of fiesta and all the good memories and i had to see what you all said.Thank you.....from the bottom of my heart.My cousin is really looking forward to getting to know all of you(he doesnt know im going to be gone in 2 months)he is 12,please take care of him.Thank you in return.I will check this again once i have rested and traveled more,im going to be in paris by the end of the week.I didnt know how to change my location on my avatar so i figured id tell you.See you later(not too much later...hahahaha,dont forget to smile)

[diffyyaj]

Hello peeps,D here,A.K.A. Andrea,i have some bad news.

A few months ago i was diagnosed with cancer,i have 2 more months in this world.I just wanted to say i have really enjoyed Fiesta and Outspark this past year and would like to thank you all for the memories.I will always cherish my time with you all,but this is my official goodbye.I would like you all to know i will be roaming around the world for my last 2 months,i will check in on the forums everynow and then. Thank you,and goodbye.

With you all forever,
Samantha Andrea Smith
A.K.A. D



My best memories are here-leader of SG,GS,BS,and GM.

Goodluck to you all <3




*Cures Samantha*

~there ish always miracles!~

[KateeHellen]

Miracles can happen... rare but still:)
It is really frustrated that despite so high advanced modern medicine cancer is still one of the deadliest sicknes at this world...
Honestly i known what you feel from very personal point of view<i lost my aunt beacuse of cancer> but nevertheless i wish you all best and good luck through your journey:)

[pain-train]

This is really sad, and I hope the next 2 months are filled with as much happiness as possible. Even though I never knew you it makes me upset and I wish I could come up with something classy and inspirational, but I can only think of one quote:

"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things". From Shawshank Redemption.

[DARUNA]

Thank you all again for your touching words,were in Arkansas now,its very VERY cold compared to comfy Pheonix Arizona^^; Just stopping for a break,my baby is a bit hungry so we decided to stay here for the night.Its quite lovely here at night,all the flashing lights of LittleRock.tommorrow we cross Tennessee and Kentucky,hoping to be in New York by friday.Just thought id let you know,its kinda expensive to travel like this,but my life savings(most going to my baby when im gone)and the inheritence my brother left is making it possible.Ive only been so happy 1 time in my life,and that was when i first started fiesta<3 Sorry to ramble,goodnight,sleep tight,dont let the bed bugs bite^^

Andrea A.K.A. D

[redjumpsuitapparatus]

"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things". From Shawshank Redemption.

woot i love Shawshank Redemption.... yeh don't give up HOPE daruna.... Lets just pray for her instead of saying goodbye:)

[Luke.mc]

Thank you all again for your touching words,were in Arkansas now,its very VERY cold compared to comfy Pheonix Arizona^^; Just stopping for a break,my baby is a bit hungry so we decided to stay here for the night.Its quite lovely here at night,all the flashing lights of LittleRock.tommorrow we cross Tennessee and Kentucky,hoping to be in New York by friday.Just thought id let you know,its kinda expensive to travel like this,but my life savings(most going to my baby when im gone)and the inheritence my brother left is making it possible.Ive only been so happy 1 time in my life,and that was when i first started fiesta<3 Sorry to ramble,goodnight,sleep tight,dont let the bed bugs bite^^

Andrea A.K.A. D

You seem such an amazing person.

No one deserves this.

I wish you and your family the best!

Good Luck;

[Celtic_Princess]

I'm so sorry Daruna, I dont think I ever had the pleasure of seeing you in game but I know you from around the forums. I hope you spend the rest of your time living your life to the fullest and enjoying time with the people that mean the most to you. You'll be in my thoughts...and you never know hun, the more you fight it, the better your chances may be. So please, don't give up hope just yet <3

[fadingsensation]

we are dust and we are meant to return to it, the journey from one to another is differences base on each person. Lives your life to the fullest and do not look back, do not have regret, look forward, he waiting for you. I will keep you in my prayer tonight...

-I'm a religious Brother who soon to be Priest-
Br. Barnabas -crazy-

[zerozone01]

While I was at work today been I’ve thinking about this thread...

I would like to say Even though you don’t know e and I don’t know you. I just have to tell you.

Don’t give up. Just because they say you only have this long to live don’t mean nothing. You have more then 2 months. Don’t let anyone tell you. If you believe it will come true. You have what you say. And I say you have a Long life ahead still. You have not fulfilled your propose in Life yet. So it’s not over. :)

[dark.unit]

i hope u get well soon...anything can happen!! :)

[buntd]

keep fighting it XD
damn thats sad tho.. enjoy life while u can.. i say

[springflowers]

NUUUU T_T we just talked this morning Silms, please dont give up, i wish u the best u are such a happy person, there is a Miracle, u are in my prayers now, be strong ok..and have fun with ur loved one.. <33 u girl..

[dark.unit]

fight fight fight!!

[lady420]

I wish you the best of luck in life. Have Hope. Never give up.

[Ian]

Wow that's really sad... My youngest grandmother died to cancer less than a year ago... Please enjoy what you love most while you can, and don't give up. Keep fighting for your life as long as you can!

[DARUNA]

Thank you all very much

[boomdude111]

Very sad to hear this, as I have actually seen you in game and spent time with you having fun:(. I wish you the best of luck, you are a wonderful person, and sadly no one deserves this. But always keep your head held high, never back down, never give in. It ain't over til we give up, so never stop believing, always keep fighting. My prayers are with you, and hug you know who for me.

[DARUNA]

thanks again to everyone ^^ it means alot

[devin_nicolai]

Darn that cancer took my g-pa this year, one day before school actually :/ . Lets all gang up and kick the living shizzle out of it D:,

Best of luck to you, Everyone will meet again eventually <3

You seem such an amazing person.

No one deserves this.
Totally 100% agreed!

EDIT: I spelled it wrong ._.

[redjumpsuitapparatus]

T_______________________________________T

[Bueawa]

Omg, this was too sad :S

[Ichikun]

I dont know you,but my mom is a cancer survivor

Dont stop figting,no metter what....One kid,patient of cancer,made a game about cancer...in that game you couldnt loose,cuz,he said,"you cant give up"...no metter what we must keep fighting since thats what make us unique,our strong spirit driven by our will to overcome and live

like I once saw in a Dakkon sig "the battle is not always won by the strongest,but by the ones who keep fighting"

[Iceberg18]

I donk really know you, but cancer is a horrible thing, im really sorry to hear that, God Bless.....

[legendarrow]

*kneels respectfully* use this world as a playground, do whatever makes you happy before you go :P just remember, youll always be remembered as a great person in your friends hearts, even those you dont know :P

[solarwings]

This is really sad D: I never knew you but you seem like a really cool person
Wow Idunno what to say..I hope you make it past Two months..and i hope
you have fun on your trip.)=

[DARUNA]

what makes you all say im amazing,a good person?i havent done anything special,i know ive tried to help the community by mostly posting suggestions.what makes me so special?

[zues8844]

Apparently, those who have never had anyone close to them suffer cancer thinks you enter Godmode until you die.

Sorry people, that's NOT the case. Trust me. But to spare Daruna, I'm NOT going into details.

[xisp4rkyix]

Although i dont know you,you sound like a very nice person, it was VERY sad for me reading this thread.
I hope the next 2 months will be very good for you.

Good luck and have fun :)

Sparky <3

[xisp4rkyix]

im not insulting her, and i never said theres no hope

If it seems that way, i apolagize,

Taken it out now,sorry if it was insulting.

[zues8844]

I'll un-quote it as well........

[DARUNA]

i see......

[zues8844]

?

Gunned down? What did I do this time???

[Roseanna]

...

Take the drama-llama somewhere else. If there's ONE THREAD that should be free of that, it's this one.

what makes you all say im amazing,a good person?i havent done anything special,i know ive tried to help the community by mostly posting suggestions.what makes me so special?
I don't know you so I can't answer your question. But I like to try to believe that someone is a good person until they prove otherwise. There's nothing "special" that you have to do to be a good person... just be yourself, and try your best to do good for yourself and other people in life.

[DF001]

Wat.

Zues did nothing.

Anyways, I think that you should go crazy, and do a bunch of things you always wanted to do.

[deathmk]

i'm sorry if theres anything I can do to make this, will ur last few momments last plz tell me and i'll see if i can make it possable,

sign, teva's one of many

[deathmk]

oh ya and few more things,
i hope u have the MOST fun u can enjoy the world, go have incounter with boys,get drunk, give all ur hated teachers the middle finger,force all the male u ever loved to love u lolz, and much more the world is urs

and i hope there always is a chance to servive and i hope thats HIGH

sign,teva's one of many

[DARUNA]

maybe you didnt realize but im traveling with my lover,i dont like guys >.> and we both dont drink so thats out

[Famineakatux]

you'll always be special to me :3 hun
you always said ty when my cleric buffed u
everytime i ever passed you by on my way to TR
while you killed those blue clover trumpy's,
and its special coz i remembered you X3
take care

[Daniel_Fury]

This topic almost made me cry O.O (Shh noone read this) I never really knew you but maybe if I did meet you in this game we could of been friends :) I'm really sorry to hear about the cancer. Please take care and enjoy every moment you can.
Danny Fury Love! <33333 xx

[furociousfyve]

I hate cancer, I also hate people who blame God for getting cancer (especially when later they tell me about how they dont belive in God at all) EL OH EL, and people who say they have cancer when they really don't cause um that is lame and it is demeaning to the memory of so many people living with, fighting off, and who have died from cancer.

From what I know of cancer therapies they usually take place in a hospital, I would think you would remember what its called, "chemotherapy" I find it odd and never have heard anyone call it 'kimo' before in my life, and I have been exposed to a lot of cancer patients as my former best friend had brain tumors removed and lots of chemotherapy sessions, and is in remission atm

So if you do have cancer and are dieing, good luck if you are a liar and are just doing this for attention - - - that is sad - - -

Tomorrow in eld i give away a bunch of equips for all classes and maybe even a few blues and other weapons ;)

[eljusto]

i dont know u but thats horrable to hear make the best of ur time :D

[scorpionkiller101]

Wish u the best of luck Daruna my brother died from that so hope u enjoy the 2 months best of luck to u and we will miss u

[diisturbed]

Kimo is used in medical jargon ...

[just_shizzle]

awwwww God Bless You Love , dont know ya but wish you much love

[Bueawa]

DOn't tell me she fooled everyone o.o

[Roseanna]

DOn't tell me she fooled everyone o.o
xD I try not to make a judgement either way. It's not my business if she really is dying or not, if she wants to lie for attention that's her personal issue... probably a sign of a deeper issue that counseling is needed for. >.> But I'm not going to just assume she's lying, either. The people who were rude to or about my dad in the last 3 months of his life while he was dying from cancer will never, ever, be forgiven. I wouldn't want it on my conscience that I hurt a person like they hurt him.

[IroguroMeek]

O.o well, finally just read through this whole thing lol

I can't say much on whether this is a big lie to get attention or not, but from my experience and knowledge, unless you have one of the super bad leukemia cancers you should have longer than 2 months, assuming "diagnosed a few months ago" isn't actually a year ago. Besides, even if you did have the more deadly type of leukemia it would have caused you to die within a month or two untreated. But like you said, you had chemotherapy which works about 70% of the time and unless you tell everyone here exactly what kind of cancer you have and how long has a few months been since you've been diagnosed, many people are going to question if this is a lie or not.

I worked a cancer hospital and institution for two years, and I've met hundreds of cancer patients and have had Oncologists explain to me thousands of times the types of procedures and cancers there are. Even patients with brain cancer can live a year or two untreated and no doctor would just be like, "Oh hey, chemotherapy did not work, let's just give up." There are many other forms of treatment and therapy that can be done. I personally have never heard of a cancer patient who is 16 and chemo didnt work. Leukemia is the only cancer I can think of that would kill this fast for someone your age, but even if you do have leukemia, one of the first treatments a doctor would consider is a bone marrow transplant, which buys you months if not years to live. The younger someone is the higher the chances of cancer treatment to work on them. Besides, really want us to believe you? Post a picture of yourself as you are now. Chemotherapy should have wiped out all your fast regenerative cells, mainly hair, meaning you should be bald. Not trying to sound mean, but in all honesty, if it was me who had cancer and I was dying, the last thing I would want to do is spend time on a forum or game.

But then again, this is just my opinion. Good luck to you and your journey around the world.

[Edit]: I just noticed this thread was made almost a month ago, so that means you have a month left, supposedly. Maybe it's just me, but if you had a month left the cancer should be at the point where it's pretty much taken over the organ(s) or organ system by now. Meaning, you should have been hospitalized and on I-V by now due to weakness and lack of ability to intake nutrients from solid food. Unless your lover is planning to wheelchair you or piggy back you around while you tour the world, I would suggest you check into the nearest hospital.

And also, last I remembered if a will was left to you by your brother, considering you are a minor, legally you can not accept the will by yourself. You need a parent or guardian to accept it for you, where are your parents and guardians in this whole picture? I'm sure they would be worried about you if you had cancer. Besides, I didn't know a minor could leave a will.

[Nipah]

(╬ ಠ益ಠ) i hope this isn't an attention thread.

edit: meek you clearly stated what my mind said. you good man ^^

[King_Obito]

Well since Meek finally posted what I thought I would have to say I don't really believe it either xD.

[Bueawa]

Busted. Seriously, what were you thinking of? You tried to fool everybody here for pure attention, and for no reason aswell. Seriously, you should be ashamed for what you've done....... This thread should be closed, deleted preferreably.

[Bueawa]

Daruna91... Didn't you join Moontree at one point? Your character was a boy? And you were in a relationship or something? If not, sorry.

Anyways, I hope you spend your last months good. Good luck.

Character was a boy.....

[Roseanna]

Wow... it's not any of our places to judge if she's lying or not. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. Since when did we become the people that she has to provide pictures of her degeneration, detailed description of the type of cancer, etc. to just to prove herself? We're people on a game that she was saying goodbye to, and sending small updates to. We're not her judges. Let it be, eh?

[King_Obito]

It is our place to judge, it is extremely inconsiderate if someone posts a big lie causing us to all give her our sympathy. It's teh interwebz, everyone lies and we have no proof if you think about it, to believe all this. Are we just supposed to believe something that seems rather bogus?

[Bueawa]

Just saying my opinion. It is really stupid of him/her to post this if it's non-sense.

[IroguroMeek]

Wow... it's not any of our places to judge if she's lying or not. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. Since when did we become the people that she has to provide pictures of her degeneration, detailed description of the type of cancer, etc. to just to prove herself? We're people on a game that she was saying goodbye to, and sending small updates to. We're not her judges. Let it be, eh?

I never said she was lying. And I would say, that some if not most people would want a form of confirmation that all this is true if they are giving their sympathy towards this person. People are going to be upset and angry if this turns out to be a big lie, and if it turns out to be the truth then so be it. But the issue is that, this is the internet and we can't see someone face to face so it's hard to tell if someone is lying. People lie all the time on the internet, and since we have no background or evidence on situations like this, it's best not to completely give in to their story. Don't get me wrong, she has my sympathies if this is real, but I just feel like people who are reading her story should at least know the other possibilities that exist.

[Bueawa]

I never said she was lying. And I would say, that some if not most people would want a form of confirmation that all this is true if they are giving their sympathy towards this person. People are going to be upset and angry if this turns out to be a big lie, and if it turns out to be the truth then so be it. But the issue is that, this is the internet and we can't see someone face to face so it's hard to tell if someone is lying. People lie all the time on the internet, and since we have no background or evidence on situations like this, it's best not to completely give in to their story. Don't get me wrong, she has my sympathies if this is real, but I just feel like people who are reading her story should at least know the other possibilities that exist.

As Meek said.

And....

I got really upset when i saw first Meek's post. don't get me wrong people, because when i first red this, it almost made me cry. And if it's real, please forgive me for being wrong.....

[diisturbed]

My God...

If this is true, im sorry, i hope you enjoy your last month.

If this is not true, guys, Stop posting here, stop giving her more attention.

You are all complaining about if this is True or not, what about just dont waste your time and go away if you dont believe this

Just leave her alone, This is not a lie for me, but everyone can say their opinions... But i must say again, if you still think that this is not true, just Go away and leave her alone (If you keep and keep posting, you'r just giving her more and more attention, and that goes against your thoughts, right ?).

Sorry if there are errors in my text, English isnt my main lenguage.

[King_Obito]

Lol, the only reason I think it's not true is because my aunt died of lukemia and she lived over a year and that's.. one of the quickest cancers I know. Also my grandparents both have cancer and they managed to live what.. 73 years now? (Also they are still alive and kickin' :p

[diisturbed]

If it is true or not, it is not our business Dx.... Well, technically she made it our business >_> Nevermind, now im confused @.@

[Celtic_Princess]

Lol, the only reason I think it's not true is because my aunt died of lukemia and she lived over a year and that's.. one of the quickest cancers I know. Also my grandparents both have cancer and they managed to live what.. 73 years now? (Also they are still alive and kickin' :p

Living with it and knowing about it are two different things. My grandmother lived with several different types of cancer for a long period of time. I didn't even know about most of them until later...but once she got cancer of the lungs she was gone in a very short timespan. Watching someone go through that is painful, for everyone involved. Its not easy to watch someone pass and not be able to do anything about it....its not easy to see them change physically to the point that if you passed them in the street you wouldn't recognize them.

I think, that while you are all entitled to your doubts, wouldn't it be more appropriate to ignore the thread? If this turns out to be true and you were accusing her of otherwise, or saying these things how are you going to feel? Honestly, if it were me, I'd feel like a terrible person.

Meek, your perspective is great...and you bring up a lot of good points about cancer. However, having worked at a cancer center shouldn't you know that how fast it affects someone is different for each patient? And that while medical standards can be applied to the general public there are often exceptions? I'm not targeting you, just saying that just because chemo works 70% of the time and just because most people live over a year with it doesn't mean that that is her case. We cannot judge that.

I think its a bit rude and unfair to ask someone to post pictures of themselves just to prove that they aren't lying to you. If she is? Well then so what? Yeah, it would be a terrible thing to do but thats something for her concience to face...if she's not? Then I pray (and I'm not much of a prayer person) that her time on earth was good and that she doesn't experience a lot of pain in her last months. But if that were me? I wouldn't want to post pictures of myself in such a state...would you?

[Nipah]

Lol, the only reason I think it's not true is because my aunt died of lukemia and she lived over a year and that's.. one of the quickest cancers I know. Also my grandparents both have cancer and they managed to live what.. 73 years now? (Also they are still alive and kickin' :p

o-o i thought grammy and grandpa were like 80 or something? LOOOL

[Bueawa]

Yeh, Cod, you're not the only one.

[Celtic_Princess]

Daruna,

You asked why people say that you are a great person, or why they say that you are awesome when they don't know you that well. From my own perspective, I would say that my reasoning behind such a statement is that you do try and help around the forums.

I vaguely recall back when the CL elections occured that you wanted to be a CL to help the community and to bring people closer together. To want to help a group of people that you dont know, and for no apparent material gain of your own is admirable. For that, I respect you. I have seen a lot of players complain about how bad the community is becoming, but instead of taking action on it, they sit back and watch it all fall down. Even I have been guilty of this at times. But I saw you make a thread appealing to players to get along and let the little things go. You received a lot of replies either for or against but the effort is what counts. In my book, you are a good person.

[Bueawa]

To be honest...... I am seriously confused....

[Roseanna]

Lol, the only reason I think it's not true is because my aunt died of lukemia and she lived over a year and that's.. one of the quickest cancers I know.
My dad died of leukemia, he had 3 months. I'm very glad your aunt had longer though. Different people, different bodies, different willpowers... all different situations I suppose.

[IroguroMeek]

Meek, your perspective is great...and you bring up a lot of good points about cancer. However, having worked at a cancer center shouldn't know that how fast it affects someone is different for each patient? And that while medical standards can be applied to the general public there are often exceptions? I'm not targeting you, just saying that just because chemo works 70% of the time and just because most people live over a year with it doesn't mean that that is her case. We cannot judge that.

I think its a bit rude and unfair to ask someone to post pictures of themselves just to prove that they aren't lying to you. If she is? Well then so what? Yeah, it would be a terrible thing to do but thats something for her concience to face...if she's not? Then I pray (and I'm not much of a prayer person) that her time on earth was good and that she doesn't experience a lot of pain in her last months. But if that were me? I wouldn't want to post pictures of myself in such a state...would you?

Of course, it differs from patient to patient, but I'm just saying in general about it. I never said she was lying, but I never said she was telling the truth either. It's hard to tell without sufficient evidence or proof if she's telling the truth or not, that's why I'm staying neutral. I just wanted to point out a few loop holes in her story to the community and sorry if the picture thing came out negatively, but I meant it as take a picture of what she looks like now, if she's touring the states show us which states she has been to, which sites she has seen, etc..etc..

Simply saying I am dying can be easily said and cancer is a touchy subject. A lot of people have had family or known people who have died or suffered from cancer and to them cancer becomes something personal. I lost my aunt to cancer, and it wasn't a fun time for her to suffer on a hospital bed for 3months, so I personally would take it offensively for someone to fake that they have cancer just to get attention, and I'm sure others would too. And like I said, if she does have cancer and this is real, then she has my sympathies and I wish her the best for what ever amount of time she has left. But if this is fake, then I think she should come forth and apologize to the people, cause I'm sure I'm not the only person who would be offended to be lied to upon such a serious issue.

And if it was me who had cancer, to be honest, coming onto the forums would be the last thing I would want to do. But if I was her, yeah, I wouldn't want to post picture of myself if I was bald and dying, but I would however post pictures of where I've been and what I've done in this short amount of time that I have to show people that this is serious.

[DARUNA]

Of course, it differs from patient to patient, but I'm just saying in general about it. I never said she was lying, but I never said she was telling the truth either. It's hard to tell without sufficient evidence or proof if she's telling the truth or not, that's why I'm staying neutral. I just wanted to point out a few loop holes in her story to the community and sorry if the picture thing came out negatively, but I meant it as take a picture of what she looks like now, if she's touring the states show us which states she has been to, which sites she has seen, etc..etc..

Simply saying I am dying can be easily said and cancer is a touchy subject. A lot of people have had family or known people who have died or suffered from cancer and to them cancer becomes something personal. I lost my aunt to cancer, and it wasn't a fun time for her to suffer on a hospital bed for 3months, so I personally would take it offensively for someone to fake that they have cancer just to get attention, and I'm sure others would too. And like I said, if she does have cancer and this is real, then she has my sympathies and I wish her the best for what ever amount of time she has left. But if this is fake, then I think she should come forth and apologize to the people, cause I'm sure I'm not the only person who would be offended to be lied to upon such a serious issue.

And if it was me who had cancer, to be honest, coming onto the forums would be the last thing I would want to do. But if I was her, yeah, I wouldn't want to post picture of myself if I was bald and dying, but I would however post pictures of where I've been and what I've done in this short amount of time that I have to show people that this is serious.

Well.I am sorry you need proof of this,but if your staying nuetral you should find this logical.I dont want to show a picture of myself,but a picture can easily be found on the internet.So if i even took pictures,you wouldnt believe me 100% unless i was IN the picture.As i said,this is a nuetral perspective,i have thought of people like you that would want pictures,but i do not want to be shown in a weakened state.However some people would say "i have to see you IN the picture so i know your not lying".what would you do of that if someone wnted pictures of you like that?i have taken all this into thought as i read your post requesting proof,tell me if i have missed a point of view.

[DARUNA]

Daruna,

You asked why people say that you are a great person, or why they say that you are awesome when they don't know you that well. From my own perspective, I would say that my reasoning behind such a statement is that you do try and help around the forums.

I vaguely recall back when the CL elections occured that you wanted to be a CL to help the community and to bring people closer together. To want to help a group of people that you dont know, and for no apparent material gain of your own is admirable. For that, I respect you. I have seen a lot of players complain about how bad the community is becoming, but instead of taking action on it, they sit back and watch it all fall down. Even I have been guilty of this at times. But I saw you make a thread appealing to players to get along and let the little things go. You received a lot of replies either for or against but the effort is what counts. In my book, you are a good person.


Thank you very mch for your support,please call me Andrea or Samantha,no need to be formal.I only do what i can to try and help the community,i dont want anything special,i just want everyone to be friends and a good,yight community.But i know you cannot change people and who they are,so the bad seed is usually the one you see in the abyss with a +9 killing people for sport or just attacking them mercilessly without a word.I think some manners in the abyss would be great,like if you want a room,just ask,it usually works and provokes less violence.If the person asked knows they cant win in a fight,they will usually leave or ask to join,however,if the person fights the asker yu can take by fore.but i digress,all i care for is the well being of the players in this great game.Thank you for your posts.

[DARUNA]

And no offense,but i could care less for attention,like i said,i posted this to inform you i will not be playing because i will most likely die in the next month or so.I have never cared if you liked me or hated me,attention is something i really couldnt care less for,i just do what i think is right.

[DARUNA]

Busted. Seriously, what were you thinking of? You tried to fool everybody here for pure attention, and for no reason aswell. Seriously, you should be ashamed for what you've done....... This thread should be closed, deleted preferreably.

You post this and expect me to just say"its ok,i forgive you"?that was a very hurtful post,i cried.You just post first and ask later,you asked for forgivness after posting this very hurtful and judgemental post.And please forgive me for not knowing how to spell chemo,its not like the docs said"Ok you spell it chemo not like it sounds but like this C-H-E-M-O"i spelt it like it sounded.Im sorry i used common sense.Im sorry......

[Bueawa]

This will probably be my last post in this forums. Why did you open a thread about this? It's a serious question.

[Roseanna]

To let her friends know what's going on, and to send updates while on her travels?

[Bueawa]

Maybe, but we'll always have Private Messages for that ;)

[Roseanna]

Mm, the few times I took a break from Fiesta for a couple months, I posted. Not for attention or anything, just because I have a lot of friends and I couldn't catch them all in-game... I also didn't know many of their spark IDs to look them up to PM them. The forum post solved that... reached everyone, or at least people who knew the friends I wasn't able to reach. When I came back, it wasn't the OMG WHERE WERE YOU D: it was hey welcome back, your break's over?

So yeah, if I found out I were dying, I would most definitely make a post. My friends here, although across the world, are very real to me. I'd call my family, call my friends, e-mail other friends, post here for other friends. I'd want all my chances to say my final goodbyes, and share whatever words I could with people before I went.

Am I saying she's not lying? No. I'm not judging, Could be, couldn't be, whatever it's not my business. I am not the judge of her conscience and actions. We could name countless reasons she could be lying, we could name countless reasons that she could be telling the truth... it's just none of our business to figure it out.

Anyways, this post is seriously de-railing in an unpleasant direction. I hope none of us want it on our consciences that... if she is telling the truth... we got the last post of a dying girl closed because we couldn't stop our imaginations and judgments from running wild.

Like someone else said, if anyone thinks she's lying and doing this just for attention... don't feed her the attention you think she so desires by responding. Simply don't give her attention, she won't get what she wants, and she'll go away to find another source of attention. Problem solved... if she is telling the truth, you didn't deeply offend a girl in the last months of her life. If she is lying, you got rid of her by not giving her what she wanted. Win win situation. ;)

[Asheer]

*sigh*...
Perhaps she made a mistake to post openly about her situation but i doubt that she expected to be called as liar...
Bueawa answer me honestly can you imagine what will happed here if she will akcually post pictures showing her true state?
I can assure you that this thread will be turned in plain nightmare because of high level of immaturity showed by many posters.
It is better that people will remember her from picture witch she add to her siggy and not as she look now.
That is why could you please stop acting like spoiled brat?, if you have doubtness in this case then please preserve them for yourself.
DARUNA all i will say here is have Safe Journey :).

[Roseanna]

can you imagine what will happed here if she will akcually post pictures showing her true state?
I can, someone would come along and say she stole the pictures off of Google and they weren't real. :rolleyes: Maybe some would even demand that she hold up a newspaper showing the day's date with a computer playing her Fiesta character clearly in the background. You can never please everyone.

So ANYways, let's get back on topic?

Hey Daruna, you said you're traveling? Where are you now? Where have you been so far?

[Miazma]

I feel sure soon we will hear an amazing story of *remission*.

[Roseanna]

I would be thrilled if we did.

[DarkSlasher]

Wow, this is heartbreaking... It really made me sad... :'( I am truely sorry about this and I really hope you enjoyed your life..

And to Bueawa, if she was really only looking for attention, why would she have said that she was going to die? If she was just lying, and still would be here in one month, people would notice that she would still be posting on the forums and this will basicly give her a BAD reputation. And you might ask "yeah but what if she was still here but isn't going to post on the forums ever again so she doesn't get a bad reputation?" or something like that. Then what would be the point of this "attention" you were talking about? And anyway, she would be probably be logged on Fiesta, and her friends would notice that she'd still be there. And how will she explain this if it was just a lie? Can't you use any common sence at all? -sigh- =/

[pokemon4955]

Maybe, but we'll always have Private Messages for that ;)

[OFF TOPIC]-
To first answer your question,what if she have over 300friends in fiesta?That makes alot of work by sending a private msg to them..one BY one eh dont you think buddy?Would making a public thread just one be easi-ER?....

Dude,im tired with all of your "smarty pants" talk would you just cut it out?If you dont like her,simply do NOT bother this thread,she made a public thread for because she is concern of her IG friends and informing them including outspark staffs that she will pass away in a few months.So if you going to post any rude comments,I suggest you dont,because Im tired of reading your post and not everything---every post of yours is rude and not helpful.Just dont post please if your going to say smarty stuff.
[/OFF TOPIC]


[ON TOPIC]
Daruna ;D i believe u =)From the look of your eyes,im sure your not that kind of person to lie and make up story.Fullfil this last month with love and fun.I pray with my ancestors and gods for u :'(

[Bueawa]

I have decided not to post anymore on this thread. This is my final goodbye....

[DARUNA]

I can, someone would come along and say she stole the pictures off of Google and they weren't real. :rolleyes: Maybe some would even demand that she hold up a newspaper showing the day's date with a computer playing her Fiesta character clearly in the background. You can never please everyone.

So ANYways, let's get back on topic?

Hey Daruna, you said you're traveling? Where are you now? Where have you been so far?

I dont see a point in asking,people will probly doubt it.But if you wish to believe me,were in eastern Germany right now,in some town i cant pronounce or spell if i lived here my whole life XD.And to everyone else who says"what about if she posts after a month?shes a big liar and we should hate her"no.Not that any of you would believe me,but if you read the first post on this thread im leaving my account to my distant cousin when i pass on.I worked too hard on my account to just delete it or throw it into the abyss never to be found.And for the person who posted about my brothers will,he was 25 when he died in iraq 2 years ago.My parents accepted the will for me,i did not realize i had to explain every last detail that has happened,i loved my brother,and i miss him,i didnt feel like talking about him much if thats ok.


later this week we plan to be somewhere near Japan,we have to skip the middle east because of all the danger.Just in case some people believe me,thought you should know.

[DARUNA]

*sigh*...
Perhaps she made a mistake to post openly about her situation but i doubt that she expected to be called as liar...
Bueawa answer me honestly can you imagine what will happed here if she will akcually post pictures showing her true state?
I can assure you that this thread will be turned in plain nightmare because of high level of immaturity showed by many posters.
It is better that people will remember her from picture witch she add to her siggy and not as she look now.
That is why could you please stop acting like spoiled brat?, if you have doubtness in this case then please preserve them for yourself.
DARUNA all i will say here is have Safe Journey :).

Thank you very much for understanding and coming to my side.It means alot SOME people show manners.

[Celtic_Princess]

I dont see a point in asking,people will probly doubt it.But if you wish to believe me,were in eastern Germany right now,in some town i cant pronounce or spell if i lived here my whole life XD.And to everyone else who says"what about if she posts after a month?shes a big liar and we should hate her"no.Not that any of you would believe me,but if you read the first post on this thread im leaving my account to my distant cousin when i pass on.I worked too hard on my account to just delete it or throw it into the abyss never to be found.And for the person who posted about my brothers will,he was 25 when he died in iraq 2 years ago.My parents accepted the will for me,i did not realize i had to explain every last detail that has happened,i loved my brother,and i miss him,i didnt feel like talking about him much if thats ok.


later this week we plan to be somewhere near Japan,we have to skip the middle east because of all the danger.Just in case some people believe me,thought you should know.


If it makes you feel any better the only words I know in German are 'danke' and 'bitte'...and my bf wants me to visit there with him next summer! I'm going to be a fish out of water so to speak. Japan should be awesome, I've always wanted to visit there. I hope you get a chance to update us again on some of the cool things you've seen. Where were you before Germany?

[nishant-rocks]

so what kind of cancer do u have???

[Asheer]

so what kind of cancer do u have???

Did you known that curiosity kills a cat?
This is HER PRIVATE MATTER and its not your business to known such things.:mad:
Or maybe she should e-mail you her whole medical records to proof if she speaks the truth?
Cancer is one of the few sickness witch can be considered as unhealable (despite fact that there are cases when people akcually defeat him) because percentage of deaths cases because of cancer over defeating cancer and comeback to health, but trust me even if you win such fight you will never be 100% healthy like before cancer attack, and even then you start to lived whit fear that maybe one day he will strike again because some cancer cells survived Chemo-therapy and after period of regeneration they restart deadly work...
If you want to learn about cancer and his types simply use internet and you will find many sources ready to provide you whit vast knowlegde.

[Rachel96]

Cancer, huh?......

I hope your last month is the happiest it can possibly be~
I know personally how much it can effect people around you, and I know that you and them will find it hard to cope, but you gotta keep strong. Heck, I remember when my Mum was diagnosed when I was 4. X.x
I hope you have funn travelling. :D I've never acctually seen you on forums or in-game, but I wish you all the bestt~! <3

Mascara xx

[Hamster-man]

no!! thts soo sad.. im soo sorry... I hope its jus tthe doctors beiing an asss!! u wont die :) have faith u wont... It happens people are told they have so much to live and they end up tramatized for the time they wer told.. But they end up living longer then expected :) Hope you many more years and a very happy life.. I hope u enjoy it very much ^.^ ... btw WE ALLL LOVE U!!!

[Roseanna]

I dont see a point in asking,people will probly doubt it.But if you wish to believe me,were in eastern Germany right now,in some town i cant pronounce or spell if i lived here my whole life XD.
I don't care if people believe you or not, I'm curious to know. :p Besides, let's get the topic back on track where it was before people de-railed it. Some will believe you, some won't. If people feel the need to be your judges then that's their own personal business to deal with. And I hope, if all this is true, that when THEY'RE dying... they won't have people calling them liars, too. >.>

If it makes you feel any better the only words I know in German are 'danke' and 'bitte'
Better than me, all I can say is kazuntight, and I can't even spell it right! LOL.

later this week we plan to be somewhere near Japan,we have to skip the middle east because of all the danger.
Yeah, that sucks, I'd love to see the middle east but... it's not worth getting bombed to pieces over.

[Bueawa]

Lawl, bombed to pieces, you might wanna pay a visit to NorwayxD

[nishant-rocks]

Did you known that curiosity kills a cat?
This is HER PRIVATE MATTER and its not your business to known such things.:mad:
Or maybe she should e-mail you her whole medical records to proof if she speaks the truth?
Cancer is one of the few sickness witch can be considered as unhealable (despite fact that there are cases when people akcually defeat him) because percentage of deaths cases because of cancer over defeating cancer and comeback to health, but trust me even if you win such fight you will never be 100% healthy like before cancer attack, and even then you start to lived whit fear that maybe one day he will strike again because some cancer cells survived Chemo-therapy and after period of regeneration they restart deadly work...
If you want to learn about cancer and his types simply use internet and you will find many sources ready to provide you whit vast knowlegde.

did i ask u that question?? and i jsut wanan know im not sayign shes lying and if shes gonna open a thread about it why cant she answer me that question?

[kimikawaii]

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later this week we plan to be somewhere near Japan,we have to skip the middle east because of all the danger.Just in case some people believe me,thought you should know.

Slap a big Canada sticker on a backpack and your set for the middle east! Everyone loves Canada :D

It's what I do when I travel around that area...but anywho, Enjoy Japan, it's a wonderful place :]

Try the hot springs they say they're healing ^^

Also, have you ever heard of the story Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes? It's a good book about a girl who had leukemia, and in Japan they also say, if you fold 1000 paper cranes you get a wish.

Enjoy yourself :]

[saithusx]

Slap a big Canada sticker on a backpack and your set for the middle east! Everyone loves Canada :D

It's what I do when I travel around that area...but anywho, Enjoy Japan, it's a wonderful place :]

Try the hot springs they say they're healing ^^

Also, have you ever heard of the story Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes? It's a good book about a girl who had leukemia, and in Japan they also say, if you fold 1000 paper cranes you get a wish.

Enjoy yourself :]

What's a Canada?

[Miazma]

Did you known that curiosity kills a cat?
This is HER PRIVATE MATTER and its not your business to known such things.:mad:

ermmm if a person decides to make such comments on an OPEN forum then they relinquish their right to *privacy*. Daruna made the topic *public* if she had wanted it to be private she would never have made a thread on a public forum about it.

After witnessing a few family members and friends pass from cancer and seeing how cruely painful their last weeks were I find it questionable that Daruna can tour the world at this time.

I have watched this thread since the day it was opened and I hold the same opinion now as I did then. Whatever reasons Daruna has for creating the thread only she knows but I think she should have done more research on *dying from cancer* to make it more beleivable.

[lmao213]

I think a handful of people can smell it. Everyone however doesn't. :/

[FaytLeonheartOmega]

lol xD this is trash this needs to be closed 1) its almost a quitting thread 2) its going into flame lmfao 3) if this is a lie x_o its an insult to the ppl i know <.<"

sure it's sad and after reading what 13 pages? and 115+ posts this just seems like an uber lie =\ *hiss* this thread just reminds me of.. ugh <.<" CL needs to look into this xD

well anyways 0.o 1 more month till your o.o" dead? O_o

*waits for miracle and returning to fiesta part*

just a side note keep drama IG X_o and all these quitting stuff IG o.o

[fixmyaccountt_t]

Bit over the top but i like the spirit.For those of you who dont know(and those that dont care can just go away >.>)im a nice guy and i always help my guild members with anything if they ask nicely.If you dont believe me ask someone from Saints_Guardians if im as nice as i say,afterall,the worst critic is yourself.

Those who only care about lvling are the Lost Ones,they dont see the beauty and stillness of the world,they are lost among themselves.

explain o.O? ._.

[DarkSlasher]

Why do people think it's a lie? I believe her! :(

[FaytLeonheartOmega]

Why do people think it's a lie? I believe her! :(

ur gullible x_o

[fixmyaccountt_t]

In the post I qouted, she says she is a man o.O explain? D: oh and I agree with meek, its just a little tough to believe :/ what befuddles me the most is that, I talked to you a few days ago, she/he said she had a lvl 89 archer and was looking for an active guild to join :/ can she please explain that?

[DarkSlasher]

Give me proof that she is lying.

[Hakai_Miko]

In the post I qouted, she says she is a man o.O explain? D: oh and I agree with meek, its just a little tough to believe :/ what befuddles me the most is that, I talked to you a few days ago, she/he said she had a lvl 89 archer and was looking for an active guild to join :/ can she please explain that?

ewwwwwwwwwwww~
feo!! even if she's lying just let her be...
HER..
huh @//@

[Roseanna]

You know what, people never cease to amaze me with how much the human race is devolving. This thread has been reported, let it get closed due to people not being able to keep their big mouths shut on things that should not be said. Maybe you people have called out a true liar, maybe you people have deeply insulted a dying person. If you can live with that on your conscience, well then, that's your own personal issue to deal with. I hope for your sakes that, when the day comes (hopefully 50+ years from now) that YOU'RE dying, nobody calls YOU a liar.

Good meeting you Daruna. Enjoy the rest of your travels. I still hold my stance that I do not judge if you're telling the truth or not because it's not my place to decide that. Whatever kind of a higher-power you may believe in is your judge, not me... and most certainly not anybody else on this forum.

[fixmyaccountt_t]

I think a handful of people can smell it. Everyone however doesn't. :/

If you have something to say at least make it on your account, you dont have to hide your identity :/

[Asheer]

explain o.O? ._.

perhaps she use this term as abreviation but not in terms of gender (iam also sometimes speak in guild chat using "Guys" term.
But you might read such term in many ways.
And i agree whit Roseanna that despite what is truth (however i sided whit DARUNA and if she speak untruth then what?, i was lied many times so one more lie will not make any difference) this thread MUST be closed.
End of the Story.

ps:No wonder that Katee left this place, and DARUNA i am sorry that you recived in the end so "nice proof of appreciacion" from this community...

[Spankle]

You know what, people never cease to amaze me with how much the human race is devolving. This thread has been reported, let it get closed due to people not being able to keep their big mouths shut on things that should not be said. Maybe you people have called out a true liar, maybe you people have deeply insulted a dying person. If you can live with that on your conscience, well then, that's your own personal issue to deal with. I hope for your sakes that, when the day comes (hopefully 50+ years from now) that YOU'RE dying, nobody calls YOU a liar.

Good meeting you Daruna. Enjoy the rest of your travels. I still hold my stance that I do not judge if you're telling the truth or not because it's not my place to decide that. Whatever kind of a higher-power you may believe in is your judge, not me... and most certainly not anybody else on this forum.

This is the point. She should be given the benefit of the doubt based on the considerable possibility she isn't lying. Even if there is a chance she's not, and you may well think she isnt, the fact you're risking hurting a real dying person for the sake of what? Catching out a liar? Is it so goddam important? If shes lying its her problem. If you don't believe with no proof just say nothing, ignore the thread, especially in this situation. There is nothing to be gained. It is not gullible to believe someone telling you they have cancer. Last time I checked it is still a disease that kills people.

Edit: That quote is Roseannas, I think she deserves recognition for the injection of maturity she has made to this thread

[DARUNA]

i used that guy thing as an expression.ill probly stop posting after this....it really hurts that the majority think im lying.Im sorry its so hard to believe.....

[Miazma]

*Quitting* threads are no longer allowed on the forums. This thread is in effect a quitting thread. How does this thread impact on the *gullible* you ask?

1. I'm dying so this thread is special and hasnt been *closed*.
2. The player is still seen on the site, gullible people could well hand over lots of sympathy gifts.
3. The player states the account will be played by a *distant relation*, again against the TOS we are not allowed to gift our accounts.

These are public forums and each and every one of us has a voice and as long as we dont push the boundaries of decency we are allowed to use that voice. Noone has the right to say we can or cant post on the thread because it is a public forum. For those who choose to beleive the OP that is their choice. Those who see the discrepancies in the story are also allowed to have their say.

So I for one wont be shutting my big mouth as suggested and no I also wont lose any sleep over *is it true or isnt it*.

[DARUNA]

no!! thts soo sad.. im soo sorry... I hope its jus tthe doctors beiing an asss!! u wont die :) have faith u wont... It happens people are told they have so much to live and they end up tramatized for the time they wer told.. But they end up living longer then expected :) Hope you many more years and a very happy life.. I hope u enjoy it very much ^.^ ... btw WE ALLL LOVE U!!!

I cant live now,if some mirical happened everyone would say"I KNEW SHE WAS LYING"so its die or im publically disgraced forever.

[DARUNA]

ad as to you speaking with me earlier,i would explain but you wouldnt believe me and it could get the other person banned.

[FaytLeonheartOmega]

Give me proof that she is lying.

give me proof she's telling the truth? XDDDDDD

this account is going to be terminated xD acc sharing :3!~ and so is this thread o.O

[Celtic_Princess]

*Quitting* threads are no longer allowed on the forums. This thread is in effect a quitting thread. How does this thread impact on the *gullible* you ask?

1. I'm dying so this thread is special and hasnt been *closed*.
2. The player is still seen on the site, gullible people could well hand over lots of sympathy gifts.
3. The player states the account will be played by a *distant relation*, again against the TOS we are not allowed to gift our accounts.

Funny, I don't see her asking for gifts. Do you?

Whether its true or not, her intent with the thread is to communicate to those that know her in game and in the forums as to whats going on. If I were to just disappear, no one here would know what happened to me. If I were in an accident..yeah I might make a thread letting everyone know where I am. She's not the first person to make such a thread...no one doubted the validity of those. So you're doubting the validity of hers just because she's claiming that she's dying?

These are public forums and each and every one of us has a voice and as long as we dont push the boundaries of decency we are allowed to use that voice. Noone has the right to say we can or cant post on the thread because it is a public forum. For those who choose to beleive the OP that is their choice. Those who see the discrepancies in the story are also allowed to have their say.

Allowed to yes...but you're treading a fine line when to comes to common courtesy and respect. There is a time and place for everything, maybe its the 'southern' style upbringing I had but I learned that it was rude to make such comments unless you had real proof that what you were saying was true. I for one, would be ashamed to say I know half the people that are doubting her if it were me in that situation. Again, if I made a thread saying that I'd been in an accident and wouldn't be here for a while, it would sicken me to see that the people I call my friends dont' believe me because i don't post a picture of me lying in a hospital bed.

So you don't believe her. Fine, thats your opinion and you are entitled to it. But what good does it do to post here? What purpose are you trying to serve? I know I can't prove that she's not lying, but can you actually prove that she is? Past your own speculation?

So I for one wont be shutting my big mouth as suggested and no I also wont lose any sleep over *is it true or isnt it*.

A lot of people have lost someone to cancer. In my family, losing my grandmother and watching her fade was one of the hardest things I've ever been through. Its been 7 years and I still cry thinking about that woman. In my opinion, my grandmother would be very disappointed in me if I shunned someone who may or may not have been dying simply because she didn't provide me with ironclad proof.

I lost a friend in 4th grade to Luekemia. Her name was Tabby. She was probably the most fearless girl I have ever met. She was outspoken, but at the same time the kindest soul you will ever meet. She would go out of her way to make sure that everyone was happy. She stopped coming to school for a week or two, and then she was gone. It was so fast...and she wasn't shy about it. She brought in all of her medical stuff for show and tell. I don't think Tabby would turn her back on someone else, and so I won't either.

You all are saying that its insulting to those who have lost people to cancer that this thread was even created. I say its insulting to the memory of those people that when you hear of it again, you don't believe it because it doesn't match with what happened to your loved one. Instead of providing the sympathy and comfort that you would give to the one you lost, you insult her and try and tear her down simply because you do not know her.

She has my sympathy. What does it cost me to give? Nothing. If I'm wrong what does it hurt? Perhaps my pride a little bit, but nothing that I can't recover from. In the end, I'd rather say that if it was true, that I stood by her like a good person would and offered what words of comfort I could give to a girl I barely know.

[Tortor-the-Dinosaur]

Celtic pretty much summed it all up right there...
daruna, i just want you to know you have my support, even though i dont really know you, i believe you. stay strong and dont listen to the people who are calling you a liar, as long as YOU know you arent lying, thats all that matters :)

[Asheer]

About passing by account... maybe she have informed Outspark about whole situation and they give her green light to do this?
If i remember correct Joker say that they can overlook fact of sharing account (hovewer in this case its hard to even consider account sharing) if no Tos vioaltion have taken place.
After reading Celtic's reply i am glad that here at this forum are still people who care about other persons :)

[Nipah]

can this thread just get closed? seriously, whether this person is lying or not, you don't have to make her farewell thread a huge like debate whether she is lying or not.

[FaytLeonheartOmega]

D; dnt bump this thread anymore ><"" i want it to sink the the bottom of the pit where it belongs <_<"

[Asheer]

D; dnt bump this thread anymore ><"" i want it to sink the the bottom of the pit where it belongs <_<"

Horray for great example of humanity...

[Bueawa]

Can someone report this thread to a CL?! I don't know how to do it :(

[King_Obito]

Can someone report this thread to a CL?! I don't know how to do it :(

Just PM a CL with the title of the thread and send them a link of it. They'll look into it.

[FaytLeonheartOmega]

Just PM a CL with the title of the thread and send them a link of it. They'll look into it.

working on it :3

._. they're going to discuss this among other CL's ._.''' lalalala!~ *waits*

Horray for great example of humanity...

o0.. and lol 0.o...i've encounted a mess of 'I'm going to suicide , I'm going to die' ect ect stuff 0.o and you can pretty much say anything you want online 0.o never actually do anything irl o.o but eh o.0 thats some people for u 0.o

[Shadowic2]

For those of you who do not believe the OP, please try to be a little more polite in case she actually is telling the truth. Believe me, it's not a very good feeling to know that one of the last things you've done to a person before they've died wasn't positive.

I can see why those of you would see this as a quitting thread. Personally I see this more an announcement of sorts to give the community a heads up, which is why I can't leave it up to just myself to take action on this thread. But I will discuss this thread with the rest of the CL team. But for now I'm going to let this be until we come to a decision

As for now, please try to be respectful.

Thank you.

[dylanangel]

{closed}
You know we struggled with what to do with this thread to honor our players. We do not allow goodbye threads but thought because of the circumstances we would give her a chance to say goodbye. The goodbyes have been said so I think its time to wrap this up.

Now I will say that its really sad the way others have come to jump on her for this thread. None of you know the truth. If this is an attention grabber that is something the OP will have to live with. If not then shame on those who felt the need to flame for it.

Consider this discussion closed

[Serric]

I will add one small tidbit: Had this thread not already been closed, I would have closed it. Not because of any hypothetical insincerity on behalf of the origial poster, but because of each and every post that decided to take it upon themselves to make a bad situation worse.

As a general rule, I don't like threads like this. They are uncomfortable and unpleasant. Worse if they are genuine. However, despite what one poster suggested, it is NOT your place to judge another. If you come across a thread like this and feel it is worth reporting, report it. If you have nothing positive to say and would rather belittle the OP in any fashion, don't. SUch posts will be subject to infraction for harassment.

The golden rule always applies, folks. If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. If you feel a thread is merely an "attention" thread, then either report it to a CL or keep quiet.

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