Well the time has come to an end...

[nakeetab2005]

I will be on the forums... But i will not be playing the game anymore
I have been told by my new bf that I am not allowed to play fiesta anymore...
But if you want to contact me send me a pm i will be checking the forums daily if i can... Thanks
Keeta
PS I will miss everyone I knew or know

[nakeetab2005]

Keeping this alive i want everyone who cares to know

[PINGY]

this shuxx =/

[anmlink]

yeah i realize its not my place to say but im doing it anyways


YOU are your own person, dont ever let anyone make your decisions for you

this new boyfriend of yours sounds like a control freak to me and that in my opinion is probably the stupidest thing to get involved with

if you want to play fiesta then keep playing it.. dont let him tell you that you cant play..

if he cant accept that then the relationship is already over


yeah probably more worriy for your safety then is needed but do yourself a favour.. BE CAREFULL

[xxgreyskysxx]

yeah i realize its not my place to say but im doing it anyways


YOU are your own person, dont ever let anyone make your decisions for you

this new boyfriend of yours sounds like a control freak to me and that in my opinion is probably the stupidest thing to get involved with

if you want to play fiesta then keep playing it.. dont let him tell you that you cant play..

if he cant accept that then the relationship is already over


yeah probably more worriy for your safety then is needed but do yourself a favour.. BE CAREFULL

i agree i agree. listen to this smart one rightttttttt here..the quoted. dont let him tell you what to do =( play fiesta if u wanna play.

[ras-blackfire]

my old bf told me also to stop or just play less... <_< i was so pissed uff at him.. soo it didnt takedlong before i breakd up xD fiesta is my life >< lol

the point is keep playing <.< dont listen to him.. i know u love him dont wanne lose him but its still ur life.. =o

[Tralu]

Often times, people will mistake the idea of being told to not play so much as a control issue. It's not always the case, and I'm not him so I can't say if it is, but still, I hope to see you around here still.

Apprentice Tralin

[mike2223312]

I will be on the forums... But i will not be playing the game anymore
I have been told by my new bf that I am not allowed to play fiesta anymore...
But if you want to contact me send me a pm i will be checking the forums daily if i can... Thanks
Keeta
PS I will miss everyone I knew or know

listen to the quote below

yeah i realize its not my place to say but im doing it anyways


YOU are your own person, dont ever let anyone make your decisions for you

this new boyfriend of yours sounds like a control freak to me and that in my opinion is probably the stupidest thing to get involved with

if you want to play fiesta then keep playing it.. dont let him tell you that you cant play..

if he cant accept that then the relationship is already over


yeah probably more worriy for your safety then is needed but do yourself a favour.. BE CAREFULL

greatly said

i agree i agree. listen to this smart one rightttttttt here..the quoted. dont let him tell you what to do =( play fiesta if u wanna play.

damn your sexy

[Jhanniss]

I will be on the forums... But i will not be playing the game anymore
I have been told by my new bf that I am not allowed to play fiesta anymore...
But if you want to contact me send me a pm i will be checking the forums daily if i can... Thanks
Keeta
PS I will miss everyone I knew or know


Erm, new BF? I didn't realize that was the case in our discussion last night or I'd have been telling you what these folks have...

Anyone telling you can't play fiesta anymore and is new is a very large red flag.

Hear me? RED FLAG...

You and I are going to have some talking to do when I get home and get online. :P

[anmlink]

Often times, people will mistake the idea of being told to not play so much as a control issue. It's not always the case, and I'm not him so I can't say if it is, but still, I hope to see you around here still.

Apprentice Tralin


I dont know this person or the exact situation and I have never met her in the game either

BUT

she said in her post... "my new boyfriend says im not allowed to play anymore"

that there sends up a huge 'Red Flag' as jhanniss puts it

Best bet is to take the advice given considering it IS comming from a male perspective

Although I worry for her safety more then is probably needed, it is due to the effort I keep trying to give on enshuring others that WE (males) are not all the abusive jerks that we are labled as.. which seems to be a never ending battle due to some 'Idiots' that think they are better then everyone else

[Tralu]

I dont know this person or the exact situation and I have never met her in the game either

BUT

she said in her post... "my new boyfriend says im not allowed to play anymore"

that there sends up a huge 'Red Flag' as jhanniss puts it

Best bet is to take the advice given considering it IS comming from a male perspective

Although I worry for her safety more then is probably needed, it is due to the effort I keep trying to give on enshuring others that WE (males) are not all the abusive jerks that we are labled as.. which seems to be a never ending battle due to some 'Idiots' that think they are better then everyone else

My apolagies, I should have noted the "anymore" part. I got ahead of myself in saying that.

A person should not be so overly obsessed with a game that it affects their relationships in real life, and should play less is what I was getting at.

Apprentice Tralin

[Iruleuall4]

Gonna mix Tralu's opinion and everyone elses.

Never, ever, EVER even bother with someone, whether it be a male or female, who tries to control you. That's just ridiculous.

Now, as I don't know the exact situation, I'll lay a few exceptions out.

If he's telling you not to play anymore because he's worried you're addicted, there's some room for talk. Granted, he shouldn't just say "you can't play anymore," and he could have gone about it a better way if this was his motivation, but at least he cares. Just make sure he knows he can't command, but he's welcome to offer his help and care.

Now, if he's telling you not to play anymore or as much because he wants to spend more time with you or something, it's basically the same as above. The two of you need to sit down and talk about either playing less or something.

Now, I agree with Tralu with one thing -- Never let a stupid game like this ruin a relationship in real life. I strongly oppose the idea of serious internet relationships, simply because you never get to actually be with the person. Finding someone over the internet isn't as bad, but that's a tangent I'll deal with later.

Real life > Internet.

Edit: See people? I can be nice from time to time. ;)

[Draco_Zandros]

Dump him, it's your life and you can live it more or less how you want. They is no law or regulation that says you can't play the game so he has no right to stop you.

If he thinks you play too much he could always ask you to cut down or even start playing with you but telling you to stop is just plain wrong.

P.S. I'm a 26 year old man and I'd never force anybody I loved to stop doing something they enjoyed.

[anmlink]

My apolagies, I should have noted the "anymore" part. I got ahead of myself in saying that.

A person should not be so overly obsessed with a game that it affects their relationships in real life, and should play less is what I was getting at.

Apprentice Tralin

Gonna mix Tralu's opinion and everyone elses.

Never, ever, EVER even bother with someone, whether it be a male or female, who tries to control you. That's just ridiculous.

Now, as I don't know the exact situation, I'll lay a few exceptions out.

If he's telling you not to play anymore because he's worried you're addicted, there's some room for talk. Granted, he shouldn't just say "you can't play anymore," and he could have gone about it a better way if this was his motivation, but at least he cares. Just make sure he knows he can't command, but he's welcome to offer his help and care.

Now, if he's telling you not to play anymore or as much because he wants to spend more time with you or something, it's basically the same as above. The two of you need to sit down and talk about either playing less or something.

Now, I agree with Tralu with one thing -- Never let a stupid game like this ruin a relationship in real life. I strongly oppose the idea of serious internet relationships, simply because you never get to actually be with the person. Finding someone over the internet isn't as bad, but that's a tangent I'll deal with later.

Real life > Internet.

Edit: See people? I can be nice from time to time. ;)


Edit: This isn't an attack on you by quoting your response

Dump him, it's your life and you can live it more or less how you want. They is no law or regulation that says you can't play the game so he has no right to stop you.

If he thinks you play too much he could always ask you to cut down or even start playing with you but telling you to stop is just plain wrong.

P.S. I'm a 26 year old man and I'd never force anybody I loved to stop doing something they enjoyed.



While yes it is understandable if it was the case of ruining a relationship due to exesive play...

The big thing I picked up on was the he is her 'NEW' boyfriend and is telling her she 'CANT' play anymore

That is a huge problem - they have not built a foundation together yet and he is already telling her she can't do something?


Maybe the way that sentence is used needed to be pointed out to grasp it the same way.. but when I first came to this thread I read it a few times over to fully catch everything that was being said before I commented on it (in other words, I made sure it registered in my head what she said)

[Dakluklia]

That sux.......You are my best friend in game and my favorite mob killing partner.......I will miss our talks and listening in on your conversations with other players.......just a little hurt that I had to find this out in the forums....:(

p.s. I will always consider you to be my bestest Fiesta friend.....:)

[slayyerr]

keeta you know me as slayyerr and yes i am a male and no i dont think you should listen to this new boyfriend of yours telling you not to play...you can do what ever you want. put a computer in his hands and let HIM try out fiesta, who knows maybe he will like it. anyway i would never tell someone NOT to do something unless it was dangerous or they could get physically hurt, but telling someone not to play a game? i think you should reconsider your options with your new BF.
BUT if YOU need to take a break then by all means do that so you dont get burned out on fiesta like i did a while back. took a 3 month break and here i am lvl63 hehe

[nakeetab2005]

AWWWWW THANKS GUYS.... I needed that...
Well I am talking about it with him about it..
TTYL thanks for all the advice and love

[Tralu]

No problem Keeta, best wishes to you.

Apprentice Tralin

[WindCaster]

Wow. A guy telling a girl not to play video games? I never heard that one. o.O

[Tralu]

My ex and I played games together... We were very competitive, I ran her over with a tank, she shot me to pieces with a machine gun... very fun... maybe that's why she's my ex :O

Lol

Apprentice Tralin

[charmle]

Keeta.....keeta....keeta....
why are you in another relationship for already?
not to **** you off cuz I love you and you know it :)
Oh yah....it's me Icee

[nakeetab2005]

Well he and I came to the conclusion that taking it away was not good I can play but in moderation....

[doomed_angel]

aahh....nice....better than not being der.....but do try to give enuf time for him....i seen many ppl go wrong coz of not being together enuf.

My ex and I played games together... We were very competitive, I ran her over with a tank, she shot me to pieces with a machine gun... very fun... maybe that's why she's my ex :O

Lol

Apprentice Tralin




lmao TT [TT=Talkitive Tralin] nice 1

[nakeetab2005]

We spend plenty enuf time together he is just upset cuz i do flirt too much lol aahh....nice....better than not being der.....but do try to give enuf time for him....i seen many ppl go wrong coz of not being together enuf.






lmao TT [TT=Talkitive Tralin] nice 1

[anmlink]

Ok well at least I don't have to worry about you now

Maybe I'll finaly meet you in Teva now

[Number6]

keeta girl you aint married to this fellow bfs come and go dont let a man tell you what you cant do if its something that is not harmful. << love yous.

[Tralu]

keeta girl you aint married to this fellow bfs come and go dont let a man tell you what you cant do if its something that is not harmful. << love yous.

While I understand your reasoning, the purpose of a relationship is usually meant to advance to marriage, so in practising not listening to your boy/girl friend, you're setting yourself up for a fall later in life, though, like you said, it is not as serious as marriage would be.

lmao TT [TT=Talkitive Tralin] nice 1

Lol, thanks.

Well he and I came to the conclusion that taking it away was not good I can play but in moderation....

I'm glad to see that you'll still be around with us, and it's good that you were able to talk it over. Communication is the key to making both people happy :)

See you around,
Apprentice Tralin

[Alice-B-Black]

Well my opinion, if he looks like a model and has a six pack, Fiesta is hardly an issue! Just rip his shirt off and take him to bed!

lol

But I am glad things were worked out! In a relationship it's all about communication, so I am glad you got him to see things your way.

[anmlink]

Well my opinion, if he looks like a model and has a six pack, Fiesta is hardly an issue! Just rip his shirt off and take him to bed!

lol

But I am glad things were worked out! In a relationship it's all about communication, so I am glad you got him to see things your way.


Are you stalking me now?

[nakeetab2005]

Well he does look like a model with a six pack but better LOLZ although we worked things out... I can't get fiesta lag to let me play last night i tried and the damn thing wouldn't let me lolz

[anmlink]

Bah, don't pay any attention to Alice.... what she realy wants is a short clumpy male with bug eyed spectacles to sit beside her and teach her how to use her computer


Have we got any of those here?



LOL JULES I'M EVIL TO YOU

[anmlink]

Anyways im glad you two came to some sort of an agreement

Fiesta servers kept crashing last night and Teva was the chain of it all (aren't we special?) so give it a try tonight you might be lucky

[WindCaster]

Bah, don't pay any attention to Alice.... what she realy wants is a short clumpy male with bug eyed spectacles to sit beside her and teach her how to use her computer


Have we got any of those here?

Who isn't attracted to that kinda man? They're the sexiest ones alive!

Just kidding. I'm a guy. >.> And I'm not one of those guys (by far), but I do know some.

[luny_13]

havent read all the pages on here..but u are your own person..my gf doesnt stop me playing fiesta... so why shud ur bf be allowed to rule ur life? if someone wants to change u or stop u doin somethin u enjoy they dont llove you for u and u shud find someone who does really..

(thats my opinion stated....)

[mike2223312]

We spend plenty enuf time together he is just upset cuz i do flirt too much lol

it should be played in moderation anyways :D

the relationship got off to a bad start, end it while its easy

i would say its smart to not get into a relationship with anyone who is jelious or obsessive in any way. it starts bad stays bad and ends bad. if you dont know what im saying youll find out eventually. you should be able to do what you want when you want and not have to take them with you. but still spend time together and so on. try going to a bar without him when you get home if he gets jelious later in life he wont let you do anything but cook and clean and that aint cool.

and to anyone who is in a relationship and knows deep down they hate the other person, or hate the relationship there in. and think you NEED to be in the relationship because thats what people do. your wrong, stop being a panzy tell them where to go, and find another chick/guy. for every 1 person that says no there are 5 more that will say yes. be social go to a bar its a social place. or for the younger ones go to the park or school just get to know people and you will have your choices

and one more thing that annoys me. if you go on a date with someone it does not mean your goin steady with soemone, it means you hung out with them for a night. if you make your decision about who you want to be with in one night, you are a moron.

[nakeetab2005]

wow Mike that was very long winded
it should be played in moderation anyways :D

the relationship got off to a bad start, end it while its easy

i would say its smart to not get into a relationship with anyone who is jelious or obsessive in any way. it starts bad stays bad and ends bad. if you dont know what im saying youll find out eventually. you should be able to do what you want when you want and not have to take them with you. but still spend time together and so on. try going to a bar without him when you get home if he gets jelious later in life he wont let you do anything but cook and clean and that aint cool.

and to anyone who is in a relationship and knows deep down they hate the other person, or hate the relationship there in. and think you NEED to be in the relationship because thats what people do. your wrong, stop being a panzy tell them where to go, and find another chick/guy. for every 1 person that says no there are 5 more that will say yes. be social go to a bar its a social place. or for the younger ones go to the park or school just get to know people and you will have your choices

and one more thing that annoys me. if you go on a date with someone it does not mean your goin steady with soemone, it means you hung out with them for a night. if you make your decision about who you want to be with in one night, you are a moron.

[nakeetab2005]

havent read all the pages on here..but u are your own person..my gf doesnt stop me playing fiesta... so why shud ur bf be allowed to rule ur life? if someone wants to change u or stop u doin somethin u enjoy they dont llove you for u and u shud find someone who does really..

(thats my opinion stated....)

Well thanks for your opinion
Now that i can play i can't get fiesta to frikken work lol

[Alice-B-Black]

Bah, don't pay any attention to Alice.... what she realy wants is a short clumpy male with bug eyed spectacles to sit beside her and teach her how to use her computer


Have we got any of those here?



LOL JULES I'M EVIL TO YOU

Oh yeah, bring on the short and clumpy! And I know how to use my computer! Just not well! ;)

And yes, I am stalking you now.

[anmlink]

Oh yeah, bring on the short and clumpy! And I know how to use my computer! Just not well! ;)

And yes, I am stalking you now.



This lady is CRAZY... she keeps coming after me... HELP!

Oh and Jules, there IS a difference between a computer and a gameboy.. i think you have your technology mixed up:p



nakeetab2005, Try talking with Serric about your problem.. it may just be an installation problem