regarding fiesta

[Saluyac]

hmm......not to stick out or anything...

but in response to all the threads involving flames:

(I'm sure everyone already knows this little saying)

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"

not

Do unto others as they have done unto you

With some of my enemies here, and even my older brother (who I still even now find hard to deal with), I've been told that the best thing to do is show kindness. Doesn't mean you should let them walk all over you, but to compliment their shoes when they try to :P...er...metaphorically speaking o.o

To be considerate of other's feelings, even the toughest still have them. I myself like to hide mine at times, but utterly fail often. You don't know where they came from back round wise or how it's been for them currently, some events can harden hearts, but the heart is still present and hurting. It doesn't feel good to be angry or sad, anger eats you up inside, and depression keeps you from accomplishing your goals, keeps you down. Depression can lead to anger, vice versa anger leading to depression. I've been down both roads many times, it was never a fun experience.

To show love, friendship, or compassion is not weakness, but one of the truest strengths. This message is directed mostly toward the guys but can apply to girls as well of course, just speaking more to the guys since I'm one of em.

I know it's sometimes hard to not hate others (many in fiesta are probably aware of that being true about me, hopefully forgotten), and how easy it is to not get along, but doing so destroys you yourself more than you may realize.

I may have left a few things out that'll I'll think about later, in the meantime, what do you all think about it. Sorry if I sounded random at times here, I tend to jump around subjects when trying to piece together what I'm trying to say.

Also

Please when you post here, avoid naming names and speak more about yourself and how things developed after you followed that first saying here if any have + anything you disagree with.

[Saluyac]

bump since feedback is nice o.o

[klasd]

if im not in a really bad mood (theni tend to get mad) i will kill with kindness ;D

basiclly if someones being (excuse my language) a bish to you instead of being a bish back you become overly nice to them but still holding your ground

for example- person 1-*swears* *more swears* *and more*
person 2- you know swearing to someone never really solves anything ^^

it seems stupid like that but the other person will keep getting more mad but if you stay at that extra kind courtious attitude while still not letting them walk over you will win the fight because in the end your right

ive gotten several ppl to leave my grinding spots after they were swearing at me in poa and doa by doing just that

also if you kill with kindness the fiesta wolrd will become a lot more enjoyful

[Saluyac]

indeed, you're not trying to be smarter or anything, it's just showing that you are a good person, and they'll know it.

Can you honestly really hate someone who is honestly nice o.o?

[klasd]

indeed, you're not trying to be smarter or anything, it's just showing that you are a good person, and they'll know it.

Can you honestly really hate someone who is honestly nice o.o?

the people who are mean to you on purpose (and they are out there)
look for you to get angry back or something they can yell at you about if you do nothing wrong treat them nicly they honestly cant be mean anymore without being retarded about it

[Oirasse]

Forgiveness is a virtue. Although sometime people might not do the same in return, or maybe, doesn't even deserve such act of kindness. But who am I to judge that? No one is perfect, and so I don't have the right to pass judgment to others. Difference is what makes us human, so I try to keep an open mind and accept people as who they are.

I will not let people walk all over me. If it's beyond my power to do anything about it, I will steal their shoes, for start, and make sure their bear feet is not stepping on velvet carpet. However, I try not to hold any grudge against anyone. I cannot forget, but I will do my best to forgive.

To me, the true strength is to be yourself and make the right choice, without worrying about being different or crumble under peer pressure, to admit your own mistake when you're wrong; to call for help when you need; and be there for those you care about... no matter what.

My friends will accept me for who I am, if they can't, they're not worthy to be my friends. I hide my feelings against people I don't know or like, but I will bare my soul to those I trust. Only the opinions of those who have my respect can truly touch my heart... lesson learned in a hard way. But broken bones will regrow stronger than before, and not every hurting if for the worse.

To quote my teacher, "Life is a matter of attitude."

[Saluyac]

was waiting for your reply to this sil XD

[Oirasse]

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Somehow... I'm not surprised...

[SeventhMagpie]

I totally agree with everything you say Sal :)
I see all these people who get into big arguments, and I just feel totally sorry for them because I know they'd both be much happier if they put thier differences aside.
Like you said, it's not letting people walk all over you because you're not just taking the insult, you're understanding where the insult came from and having the power to 'Forgive'. I'm not saying we should all turn into hardcore christians though xD

There really isn't much else that I can say, because you rounded them up in a way that I wouldn't be able too, and I didn't really make any new points, I just agree with what you say.

“Good actions give strength to ourselves and inspire good actions in others.”

[sh4d0wkid]

Or.... You could take out a 2x4 and whail the person right upside the head, I don't get why "noob" means anything the defiinition of noob is a person who is new to the game, some older games even use that word its funny it's like "Hello noob" cuz its slang for the word "[new]bie" and if people rant about people being low lvl , oh well we all were that level [except when ur a low lvl and u do KinG Slime kq and double ot triple lvl xD] just make no sense making fun of people for level, or guild war ppl just cuz there lower lvl like alot of guilds [I have at leats enuf guts with my nub guild Im only one in to guild war ppl my lvl and not a guild with nno lvl req]

[Saluyac]

thanks sat, we need more people in fiesta who understand how this works so it might help to make as good a community as it was way back..........ah who am I kidding, it'll never be ~that~ good anytime soon :q

but this would still improve the community now

[killerof_joy]

Wow..... this is the first of anything from a Genesisian that actually has a deep meaning.

And I agree with Sal 100%! Getting all mad at people will just casue more problems than it solves.

[Saluyac]

You'd be surprised how deep some of us are, most feel silly spilling their core beliefs. Mainly because nobody takes this kind of thing seriously anymore >;(

[killerof_joy]

I really do care, but my sarcastic outer self can't let something like this pass without at least a few comments ^^

[Saluyac]

meh hobo, meh


oh and while you're here,

just for archy boy:

cookies and spam........cookies......and........spCOOKIES!.... ....


anyway, back on topic

[cheesebow]

Or.... You could take out a 2x4 and whail the person right upside the head, I don't get why "noob" means anything the defiinition of noob is a person who is new to the game, some older games even use that word its funny it's like "Hello noob" cuz its slang for the word "[new]bie" and if people rant about people being low lvl , oh well we all were that level [except when ur a low lvl and u do KinG Slime kq and double ot triple lvl xD] just make no sense making fun of people for level, or guild war ppl just cuz there lower lvl like alot of guilds [I have at leats enuf guts with my nub guild Im only one in to guild war ppl my lvl and not a guild with nno lvl req]

I find it stupid how ppl call others "noobs" I mean seriously guys this isn't runescape =/

[irroc29]

It brings joy to me that you are trying to bring peace to the community and reminding them that we should do that..
=)

[Saluyac]

It brings joy to me that you are trying to bring peace to the community and reminding them that we should do that..
=)

yeah, if many get serious about this things should be better.